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EM disaster!

Moving On...Nearly 3 weeks ago I asked the dreaded question. ..Where is this going?, before reading the warnings. ...I was long distance dating a man I met online 3 years ago.....He was recently retired from the Navy and had been divorced for 5 years....we hit it off with great conversation but I always felt that he wasn't interested so I broke it off and leaned back for a week and then he called to say missed me....well to make a long story short we got back together those two other…See More
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Katarina Phang commented on Queen's blog post HELP!
"Hi Queens, sorry for this.  Can you move this to the forum?  You'll learn the way by reading my book.  But let's get it straight here: none of you wants to move to be with the other, what is left to discuss?  Find…"
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Katarina Phang replied to Ann's discussion damage done...now what?
"Lean back and let him feel safe to come to you again."
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Katarina Phang replied to Sus Q's discussion Seeing a recently divorced man
"Why does it matter?  Fact is he's not ready and you'll be wise not to have any expectation with him and continue to do things that make you happy first and foremost.  That means if seeing him on the side makes you happy, do it.…"
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HELP!

Moving On...Nearly 3 weeks ago I asked the dreaded question. ..Where is this going?, before reading the warnings. ...I was long distance dating a man I met online 3 years ago.....He was recently retired from the Navy and had been divorced for 5 years....we hit it off with great conversation but I always felt that he wasn't interested so I broke it off and leaned back for a week and then he called to say missed me....well to make a long story short we got back together those two other…See More
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Ann posted a discussion

damage done...now what?

What if I have messed up and came across demanding, needy and pushy (masculine) How do I repair that?On a side note....I have noticed that every month before my period I have to be very conscious of what I am doing and purposely make my mind work over my emotions as they are totally out of whack. I keep telling myself to step back and realize that how I am feeling my just be a chemical imbalance that is going to pass in about a week. I am overly sensitive and reactive. sometimes I am successful…See More
Apr 8
Sus Q replied to Sus Q's discussion Seeing a recently divorced man
"I have been giving him space and he repeatedly comes back. My question is this...do you think he genuinely meant what he said when he told me about not feeling this way before, us having a future, etc? I know I have read on the forum here that if I…"
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How do I reciprocate?

Hi Katarina, I've read your book and have been reading your blog posts which are really helpful. I still have some specific questions to improve my feminine side and this relationship I care about.Finally I'm dating someone I'm attracted to! I'm leaned back, he is the pursuer but things are going really slow. He tells me how he feels about me, the way he talks, treats and touches me are in a very loving way. We have fun, talk a lot, understand each other. While we are together things are mostly…See More
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Katarina Phang replied to Sus Q's discussion Seeing a recently divorced man
"Susie, please change your username for privacy purpose.  He said repeatedly he's not ready.  There is no sense in trying to decipher what he means.  He means what he says.  Nobody is going through a divorce is ready to jump…"
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Seeing a recently divorced man

 Basically, we started seeing one another on Thanksgiving. He filed for divorce in July so it is very recent. it was a messy divorce- she had depression issues, cheated on him, and around NYE he had to pay her a lot of money bc he stayed in the house. he drifted away during this time for a few days, but then came back.I welcomed him back but did let him know it hurt my feelings a little. After we had been talking for about a month he had mentioned several times that he was hesitant to jump into…See More
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EM disaster!

Moving On...Nearly 3 weeks ago I asked the dreaded question. ..Where is this going?, before reading the warnings. ...I was long distance dating a man I met online 3 years ago.....He was recently…Continue

Started by Queen in General Breakup Discussion on Sunday.

damage done...now what? 1 Reply

What if I have messed up and came across demanding, needy and pushy (masculine) How do I repair that?On a side note....I have noticed that every month before my period I have to be very conscious of…Continue

Started by Ann in General Breakup Discussion. Last reply by Katarina Phang Apr 11.

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 Basically, we started seeing one another on Thanksgiving. He filed for divorce in July so it is very recent. it was a messy divorce- she had depression issues, cheated on him, and around NYE he had…Continue

Started by Sus Q in General Breakup Discussion. Last reply by Katarina Phang Apr 11.

How do I reciprocate?

Hi Katarina, I've read your book and have been reading your blog posts which are really helpful. I still have some specific questions to improve my feminine side and this relationship I care…Continue

Started by Barones in General Breakup Discussion Apr 6.

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Posted by Queen on April 8, 2014 at 4:01pm 1 Comment

Moving On...

Nearly 3 weeks ago I asked the dreaded question. ..Where is this going?, before reading the warnings. ...I was long distance dating a man I met online 3 years ago.....He was recently retired from the Navy and had been divorced for 5 years....we hit it off with great conversation but I always felt that he wasn't interested so I broke it off and leaned back for a week and then he called to say missed me....well to make a long story short we got back together those two other… Continue

Ok, I'm doing better, then worse...the roller coaster ride

Posted by happylady on August 9, 2013 at 8:15am 1 Comment

Hello, I thought I was doing really well.  I had reread some of the correspondence between he and I and one thing I noticed is that now I look at the letter I thought was a disaster completely differently.  What I saw as rejection, I now see as his emotional pain and the need for him to work through it before he can be the kind of partner I need.  Nothing changed here but me.  So, I was doing really great, despite my ups and downs.  I have had some regression, even though I have been working…

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Finding Nemo --- she is lost

Posted by Finding Nemo on May 22, 2013 at 7:56pm 1 Comment

Finding Nemo is married to a man that she thinks is incredible despite everything they have been through.  She has known him for 15 years and have been married to him for almost 10.  We are both hard workers, in our later 40's and we have never been in any kind of trouble before in our lives.  Well, sadly, we had a serious fight at the beginning of the year we had a really nasty fight and he went to jail.  He wasn't allowed to come home for almost 3 months.  Now that he can come home he…

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The breakdown of my relationship and loss of love

Posted by Miss Jcjc on June 10, 2010 at 2:08pm 5 Comments

This is the story of what happened with my ex boyfriend and I, how we broke up, and why I think I would like to fix things with him:…

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