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Stephanie replied to Stephanie's discussion Broke it off in the heat of the moment
"Hi Katarina, Thanks for the reply.  I have read the book and funny enough much of what you teach is what comes to me naturally.  I know this is part of the reason he fell for me in the first place.  He always was telling…"
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Katarina Phang replied to Stephanie's discussion Broke it off in the heat of the moment
"Stephanie, Let the dusts settle and I'm sure he'll be back.  Have you read my book yet?  Next time it's useful not to be so reactive when things don't go your way but this experience can hopefully strengthen your…"
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Broke it off in the heat of the moment

Hello,I'm hoping someone can help me.  There's a lot, but I'll try to sum it up.I was dating a man for 9 months.  He fell on my lap literally...I was just riding my bicycle!  He stepped up and claimed me within a couple months.  He did win me over in those few months, as we spent so much time together.  Everything went extremely fast and flowed nicely, we were seamless in so many ways.  He introduced me to his family and friends in a few months, told me he loved me in about 4, etc.  It was all…See More
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Katarina Phang replied to KD Oz's discussion Can I let him know I'm still interested?
"KD, You have said it with the first text.  He knows you are sorry so let him take the time to miss you and bounce back.  And he will."
Jul 20
Kay W. replied to Kay W.'s discussion My EUM asked to be F**ck Buddies but his dating profile says he is looking for 1 woman! Should I agree to that?
"ok so I did read the book  and i see other guys platonically but so far no one else  has turned me on enough to sleep with them yet so i still miss him. ( no one makes me come like him anyway)(I havent talked to him in 3 weeks since our…"
Jul 19
KD Oz posted a discussion

Can I let him know I'm still interested?

Okay, I need some advice on this question... Exactly one week ago my EUM and I decided not to see each other anymore. We had been dating for 6 months and things were great! I'm a very independent woman with a large group of friends and family, so I wasn't needy or clingy, we worked really well together, we saw each other 1-2 a week, communicated regularly (I let him lead this a lot, I was naturally leaning back), physically our connection was mind blowing. We loved our time together (he would…See More
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Katarina Phang replied to Honey's discussion How to get him back??
"Honey, He's telling you why he doesn't want a relationship.  Your neediness and demand don't help certainly.  You can only lure him with honey and you're pushing him away.  My book will help you realize what…"
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Jul 15
Elizabeth Carreras replied to Elizabeth Carreras's discussion EUM seeing another woman seriously but chasing me!
"Thanks so much for the advice. Today I had a minor scare and he worried about me. I call that progress!"
Jul 9
Honey posted a discussion

How to get him back??

Hi Katarina, Please help me out.When I started my new job in April, I met my ex-colleague he has already resigned from his postion, and was finishing off his last few weeks at work. He was about to move to another country for good. He asked me out, at first he was only looking for fun and non-strings attached relationship. We went on a few dates and we became attached to each other and got to know each other. Things went wrong when I texted him in a needy/demanding way. It freaked him out coz…See More
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Katarina Phang replied to Elizabeth Carreras's discussion EUM seeing another woman seriously but chasing me!
"Treat it as it comes.  If in the moment you feel like seeing him, go see him but don't take yourself off the market.  Do whatever that makes you happy and fulfilled.  He's an added value in your life."
Jul 7
Elizabeth Carreras posted a discussion

EUM seeing another woman seriously but chasing me!

I was seeing a man in his early 40's  who has never been married (I am 35) where we have had many ups and downs, dated other people, but always came back to eachother. The immense passion and chemistry is off the charts.I didn't feel so great about myself and my situation (I was working extra time to help my family, had a roommate so I never entertained him at my place, and sort of pushed off his  dating advances also a bit of turn off he has reputation as a player but whatever) so I kept him…See More
Jul 6

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Broke it off in the heat of the moment 2 Replies

Hello,I'm hoping someone can help me.  There's a lot, but I'll try to sum it up.I was dating a man for 9 months.  He fell on my lap literally...I was just riding my bicycle!  He stepped up and…Continue

Started by Stephanie in General Breakup Discussion. Last reply by Stephanie yesterday.

Can I let him know I'm still interested? 1 Reply

Okay, I need some advice on this question... Exactly one week ago my EUM and I decided not to see each other anymore. We had been dating for 6 months and things were great! I'm a very independent…Continue

Started by KD Oz in General Breakup Discussion. Last reply by Katarina Phang Jul 20.

My EUM asked to be F**ck Buddies but his dating profile says he is looking for 1 woman! Should I agree to that? 2 Replies

I met my EUM on a dating site .On his profile he claimed he was looking to date 1 woman 1 on 1... He's good looking,divorced 5 years and has 1 child clos in age to mine and i found we live really…Continue

Started by Kay W. in The Ladies' Lounge. Last reply by Kay W. Jul 19.

How to get him back?? 1 Reply

Hi Katarina, Please help me out.When I started my new job in April, I met my ex-colleague he has already resigned from his postion, and was finishing off his last few weeks at work. He was about to…Continue

Started by Honey in The Ladies' Lounge. Last reply by Katarina Phang Jul 18.

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Posted by Queen on April 8, 2014 at 4:01pm 1 Comment

Moving On...

Nearly 3 weeks ago I asked the dreaded question. ..Where is this going?, before reading the warnings. ...I was long distance dating a man I met online 3 years ago.....He was recently retired from the Navy and had been divorced for 5 years....we hit it off with great conversation but I always felt that he wasn't interested so I broke it off and leaned back for a week and then he called to say missed me....well to make a long story short we got back together those two other… Continue

Ok, I'm doing better, then worse...the roller coaster ride

Posted by happylady on August 9, 2013 at 8:15am 1 Comment

Hello, I thought I was doing really well.  I had reread some of the correspondence between he and I and one thing I noticed is that now I look at the letter I thought was a disaster completely differently.  What I saw as rejection, I now see as his emotional pain and the need for him to work through it before he can be the kind of partner I need.  Nothing changed here but me.  So, I was doing really great, despite my ups and downs.  I have had some regression, even though I have been working…

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Finding Nemo --- she is lost

Posted by Finding Nemo on May 22, 2013 at 7:56pm 1 Comment

Finding Nemo is married to a man that she thinks is incredible despite everything they have been through.  She has known him for 15 years and have been married to him for almost 10.  We are both hard workers, in our later 40's and we have never been in any kind of trouble before in our lives.  Well, sadly, we had a serious fight at the beginning of the year we had a really nasty fight and he went to jail.  He wasn't allowed to come home for almost 3 months.  Now that he can come home he…

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The breakdown of my relationship and loss of love

Posted by Miss Jcjc on June 10, 2010 at 2:08pm 5 Comments

This is the story of what happened with my ex boyfriend and I, how we broke up, and why I think I would like to fix things with him:…

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“It is not easy to live with an enlightened person, or rather it is so easy that the ego finds it extremely threatening.  Remember that the ego needs problems, conflict, and “enemies” to strengthen the sense of separateness on which its identity depends. The unenlightened partner’s mind will be deeply frustrated because its fixed positions […]

A Journey Home To Self, A Story of Awakening

Awakening is available to all because it’s a mere RETURN to our essence.  And that is why it is called “awakening” or “realization.”  It’s not something so grand, it is in fact very ordinary.  But we can’t see it because we are too busy in our delusion that is self-created through ignorance.  We have been […]

How Do You Know If A Man Has Claimed You?

At some point the inevitable question will arise: are we exclusive?  Many will say not every guy subscribes to the “verbal claiming” philosophy and I would agree.  However, a guy who claims us will be so obvious with his actions and he won’t leave us in the dark.  He makes it clear that he’s courting […]

When Your Boyfriend Wants To Go Back To His Ex, Hold The Door Wide Open

When your man thinks he’s not over his ex, let him go….hold the door wide open.  Usher and help him to complete his journey faster.  And trust the strength of your connection and the rare special of a woman you are will bring him back into your arms eventually…that if some lucky guy hasn’t swept […]
 
 
 

Katarina Phang, The Man Whisperer

Why Won’t He Marry Me Already?

Not everyone needs to marry and by God, please let marriage be a by-product of a healthy relationship, not a destination. If your relationship is shaky now or not that connected stop thinking of marriage for a while. Dive in the relationship, live it to the fullest, commit to it, be vulnerable, work with your […]

Salvation Through Relationship: Relationship As A Spiritual Practice

“It is not easy to live with an enlightened person, or rather it is so easy that the ego finds it extremely threatening.  Remember that the ego needs problems, conflict, and “enemies” to strengthen the sense of separateness on which its identity depends. The unenlightened partner’s mind will be deeply frustrated because its fixed positions […]

A Journey Home To Self, A Story of Awakening

Awakening is available to all because it’s a mere RETURN to our essence.  And that is why it is called “awakening” or “realization.”  It’s not something so grand, it is in fact very ordinary.  But we can’t see it because we are too busy in our delusion that is self-created through ignorance.  We have been […]

How Do You Know If A Man Has Claimed You?

At some point the inevitable question will arise: are we exclusive?  Many will say not every guy subscribes to the “verbal claiming” philosophy and I would agree.  However, a guy who claims us will be so obvious with his actions and he won’t leave us in the dark.  He makes it clear that he’s courting […]

When Your Boyfriend Wants To Go Back To His Ex, Hold The Door Wide Open

When your man thinks he’s not over his ex, let him go….hold the door wide open.  Usher and help him to complete his journey faster.  And trust the strength of your connection and the rare special of a woman you are will bring him back into your arms eventually…that if some lucky guy hasn’t swept […]

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