Get Your Ex Back, Save Your Marriage And Stop Your Divorce
I have just begun my journey into leaning back with my EUM...we've been off and on for quite awhile now...he just told me he doesn't want a relationship in his life right now...we are still in contact and both on internet dating sites...I know he's gong to have dates which doesn't bother me that much...my problem is I don't "want" him to be physical with anyone else....how do I overcome this? I am overwhelmed with thoughts about it and it drives me crazy that I can't separate my attachment to him in that arena.....
I think I can do a casual relationship with him...like I said, I am working on the leaning back and waiting for him to come to me......I have started to meet others and close to having dates.... but the sex thing always confuses me....how do you balance the sex issue...i don't know if its healthy to have more than on sexual partner??
I so totally understand how you are being haunted by that thought but the truth is you can't control a man. He'll do whatever he wants to do. Best thing is to keep working on increasing your attraction factors and cementing a great connection with him. How long have you seen each other and how often?
Just practice safe sex for now. When he brings up the talk -and at some point he will-, express your concern about having sex with other people. Ask him to get STD check as well and tell him you are worried about that if you both are not monogamous.