Get Your Ex Back, Save Your Marriage And Stop Your Divorce
You Will Learn The Emotional Hot Buttons To A Man’s Heart That Even Himself Might Not Be Aware Of
In fact I was a man chaser many years ago. I was young and naive. I thought I could control a man’s interest by showing him how assertive I was by relentlessly chasing him! I could never attract a masculine man with my aggressiveness, no matter how much initial attraction he had for me in the beginning. I always managed to turn him off.
I even managed to really humiliate myself one day when I was stranded in a foreign country for a week because I was so impatient and wanting to be in control of the courting (instead letting the guy do that) I practically invited myself to go there to visit him.
He made a convenient excuse as soon as I arrived that he couldn't see me right away because he was engaged in "a very important and emergency matter" somewhere "up north." I was in limbo for the whole week waiting around and kept checking my emails expecting a word from him. We did meet and two hours later he disappeared again into thin air.
Sounds eerily familiar to you now, doesn’t it?
Truth is men don't like to be controlled or chased. It's a total TURN OFF, no matter how gorgeous and sexy you are. They will like it for about five minutes before slowly but surely pulling away. If you have been in that situation more times than you care to remember, you have to keep reading because your life will never be the same again after you listen to what I'm going to tell you!
Then one day -through much soul-searching, trial and tribulation- I just figured out what really works in triggering intense attraction in men. One day I deciphered the one key I need that unlocks the secret to a man's HEART. This is WHY I could never be with a guy I was truly attracted to: the masculine-energy type.
So finally you find the One book that will be your Bible in ALL dating situations.
Every day I deal with women with the same issues, over and over again. They email me privately or ask questions on my Facebook Wall and heated discussions on the subject will start to ensue. Personally, I'm dealing with the same situations myself from time to time.
Then one day I just figured out what really works in triggering intense attraction in men. One day I deciphered the one key I need that unlocks the secret to a man's HEART. This book is a culmination of all my reflection, work and personal journey with men that have been brewing for years and years, especially after my extremely excruciating split from my husband.
It's time to share all I know with all of you, lovely ladies!
The title might indicate emotionally unavailable men (EUM) as the main target, but the principles in this book WORK WITH ANY MAN. If you can deal with EUM, you can deal with ANY man.
In fact, my boyfriend whom I met right after I published this book (it's surprising how the universe works, right?) is so emotionally available and we have been having the most functional and most fulfilling relationship of our lives. He's EVERYTHING I want in a man and vice versa. It takes one to know one. That's what the full understanding of key principles to attraction as propagated in this program will prepare and bring you as well.
And I call this a PROGRAM because your journey won't end when you read the last page of the book. I'll be by your side and personally guide you through emails as well as my exciting private group. You won't find the same ongoing after-sale service with any other program out there.
I am COMMITTED to your personal growth. And only when you have truly GROWN as a person, you can truly be happy in a relationship and you will attract the SAME QUALITY of men as well because you will be STRONG, SMART and CONFIDENT enough to walk away from any man and a relationship that doesn't serve you. No more pining. No more prolonged suffering and heartbreak. Instead he'll be the one who YEARNS to be with you because you are a HIGH-VALUE WOMAN that any man seeks for commitment.
I hadn't even officially launched it when a few women who were my loyal fans were already signing up to read my book. And they all reported something positive just instantly with their men.
Their men began to chase them again.
Here are what they say about the book:
Update 6/15/2013 as shared in my private group: "I got my man back. He has all of the sudden gotten very serious. Moving back in, wanting to get married and buy a house together etc. I am letting him move back in but holding off on the rest for now. Leaning back works, and moving on works. But now that he's back, and living with me, how do I keep it fresh? And make sure it will work before I commit to the rest? This is our second go round living together. Don't want to make the same mistakes, and I know so much more after reading Kat's material. But I want to keep our relationship fresh and exciting. We both work 12 hour days, and I have 3 kids at home, so it's so easy to quickly get in a rut.
We never really went without contact, a week or 2 at the most. The longest we went without seeing each other was a month or so I think but we were always in touch with each other just not daily or on regular intervals like before. We got back together about 10 months ago, only after I started dating someone else and refused to see him at all for a while, but we still talked. It was very up and down and we broke it off again at the end of January right when I bought Kat's book.
I began reading her material, and putting it into practice when possible (and trust me I was doing EVERYTHING wrong!!!). We never really stopped talking or seeing each other at least now and then after the 2nd break up. And I went on dates with other men, joined a gym, changed jobs and started working more hours and really just focused on myself and my kids. Totally practiced leaning back and mirroring. I told him that I was dating others one night during a conversation and he seemed cool with it. But he has latched onto me since. I have had my reservations about his motives of course. But just thoroughly enjoying the attention from him. We went to a work function of his last night and several of his co-workers told me he told them he was a changed man and was going to marry me.
It is very hard to put into practice things that you learn, it's just natural to go back to instinctual behaviors when upset, but I was horrible to this man, I turned him into a frog! I really did. And these tendencies still surface, I am very insecure, I can see it in all areas of my life actually. I'm afraid the old me will surface and push him away again. But I have come a long way. I will keep reading and learning and working on building my own confidence. Kat's material is amazing, and spot on. It is almost an instant change in their behaviors when you put it into full practice. I won't stop learning and growing with or without this man!!" ~Kristie Graham, Lousiana.
"I'm so blown away by the amount of knowledge and insight Katarina has on the nature of men's genetic make-up! And I'm also blown away by the fact how much I didn't know about what's healthy for myself in dating and relationship and how much I'm feeling so empowered after reading this book. She's so extremely smart. Thank you, Katarina, for making us women see how much power we have in our relationship with men!! A must-read, ladies!" ~Janet, Minnesota
“Since reading the book and having coaching with Katarina my life has changed. Not only my life but my perspective on men myself and the expectations we have on ourselves and men! I’ve finally changed my outlook on men and beginning to learn a great deal about them!! This book and coaching has changed my life and is giving me the empowerment to value myself I highly recommended!
Every woman needs this book regardless if you are with the most commited man in the world! Us women crave to understand men. This book is the key to really understanding them. I’m grateful for this journey. I’m too going to pay it forward and help others!
Most woman dealing with this are successful educated and sexy women whom just have insecurities due to their past hurt. Even therapy hasn’t helped as much as coaching and reading this book! Us women need to embrace our femine side as well as really understanding men and the role they play!” ~Manda Panda Laing, Australia”
STILL ON THE PRESS – SNEAK PREVIEW OF KATARINA PHANG’S NEW BOOK: I have been acquainted with Katarina Phang on the internet for 2.5 years, and she has helped me tremendously with my way-too-long drama, I mean, relationship with an Emotionally Unavailable Man (EUM). In order to thank her for all her time and expertise, as an editor and technical writer, I offered to edit her new book, HE’S REALLY THAT INTO YOU, HE’S JUST NOT READY.
As I am working, I feel almost giddy with excitement, like viewing the world from above for the first time! I feel like I am beholding a secret treasure map to mystical, unseen riches that has been buried for all of time! Wow, Katarina holds some really deep concepts here! This book is golden!
Katarina’s view on emotionally unavailable men and relationships is profound and beautifully laid out in her manifesto that unriddles the millennial mystery of romance! ~ Brenda Caley, Editor and Technical
“I actually think that relationships are supposed to be calm like that. I have it so used to running on adrenal and nervous system creating peaks and troughs. This type of gentle calm anxiety free relaxing is new to me but I love the new needy free me emerging – still working on me but so glad, Kat, to have you in my life walking the road as my guide and reference point. Now I havent asked when will we meet next or made any moves or hints to that – am totally letting him lead - am still in shock that he said “I love you very much”- love xxx” ~Mary, Australia
“Leaning back has been the best advice ever!!!! Since reuniting with my guy a few weeks ago, I have leaned back. I don’t unnecessarily call him and have not invited him along to anything yet. I have had a fun social calendar and tell him but don’t invite him. He has been calling me more inviting me out and doing things for me. He had to practically invite himself to the Christmas bar crawl I am going on tonight. I don’t think he liked it too much, it is with my personal trainer. He said if he doesn’t show up call him for a ride home. Haha. This is working great. I did have to guide him once into asking over for him to cook dinner but it came out like it was all his idea . He just alluded to me being his girlfriend too. Wow. Didn’t expect that so soon.” ~Paula, California
“Katarina’s brilliant advice for those of us women relating with an EUM is priceless….Katarina advocates that we start taking care of our own emotional needs through self-responsibility which means to get on with our life impregnating a sense of value, self-worth and importance into our daily activities and meditations. We are encouraged to lean back and wrap our arms around our own Hearts and cradle ourselves in self-love whilst chilling out the anxiety driven part of our nervous systems around the need for a man’s love and take the opportunity to breathe freedom, joy, strength, tranquility, clarity and calm into this deeply wounded part of ourselves. The results for me have been beyond belief – the change in my EUM’s attention direction as I have followed Katarina’s advice is that now the Cupids arrow is pointing right back at me!!! Now I get to decide will I catch it or let it fly past me? I feel so liberated and free in my loving and so much more centred, calm and relaxed in my being. Thank you Kat – beautiful !!! ” ~Meredith, Australia.
“Hi Katarina. I have re-read your e-book countless times. I wanted to thank you…you’re a god-send. Reading all your posts and other people’s posts as well really helps a lot too. Leaning back totally works and so is staying in my feminine essence. I have no expectations and I receive great surprises from that. I still slip here and there but I remind myself to think in abundance and that everything is okay and I am far from perfect.” ~Jessica, San Francisco
“I just read your book and I love it! I’ve learned so much from you, thank you, I know it took forever to read your book since I didn’t have a computer at that time, I got one last month, and I am happy I did ” ~Fabiana, Pensylvania
This book also will deconstruct your paradigm, the broken old one that hasn't served you, and replace it with an empowering new one from which the Feminine Magnetism™ will naturally emanate. You will become a man magnet by the virtue of that new paradigm.
It is so radical yet so reasonable, it's like being awakened from a long sleep.
ALL FOR $47 ONLY!! (WILL BE $67 VERY SOON!)
It's An Incredibly Small Investment To A More Fulfilling Love Life And Relationship In Which You Feel Loved And Cherished Because He's So In Love With You And Can Never Let You Go
THis is an EBOOK, which means it's downloaded to your computer after your payment is processed (You will receive an email containing of your login information). Please email me at firstname.lastname@example.org if you have a problem downloading and I will respond to you immediately by sending it personally myself to your email. And I can assure you that you will yearn to read the rest of the book after that first chapter.
It's time to do something about your in-limbo situation. It's time to read the one book that cuts through the issue ONCE AND FOR ALL.
Can't wait to read your new book, as it may just help my STRESS levels of late, hahaha. One question though. Is it in PDF format as I have real problems in adobe?
Hi Joanne, it's in PDF. Can you somehow tweak it so you can download PDF? This book will help you so much!
Are you on FB? Please add me if you haven't already done so. I have a private group I want to add you to.
I got emails everyday from women who love my facebook page and/or my book and practice what I teach. Here's one of them from a reader who also gets my 2-week coaching.
"I was seeing this guy for 4 months who I really liked. He told me at the start he did not want to be in a relationship so I ended it as I do want a relationship and not something casual. I am 40 and he is 28. He kept
The title of this book caught my eye as I can relate. I started seeing "K" several months ago. We had both recently (by a few months) come out of bad relationships. He had told me periodically that he wasn't sure he wanted to be in a relationship. We continued to see each other and the feelings grew. Right after Christmas he told met that I was "wife material" and that he was crazy about me. Two days after he said this, he told me that he didn't want to be in a relationship and wanted us to just be friends. He said he was really stressed out and he wasn't in a good headspace. He needed to figure out what he wanted and that it had nothing to do with me. He said that he really likes me, cares about me very much and didn't want to lose me. He said that I'm the most complete woman he has ever known and totally different. This was a few weeks ago. Since then, I leaned back and have given him space. He calls me just to talk. I did cave and tell him that I missed him a few days ago. He said he missed me too. I don't know if he genuinely misses me or if it was just reflexive. This man is a workaholic. His work definitely takes priority during this time of year as he is in the sports industry. Any advice would be appreciated. I miss him so much. I do have my own life and am very busy but still miss him.
Lori, welcome and thanks for posting. Did you read my book yet? If not, I really suggest it. I will soon add new chapters and expand on the points that may be confusing to a lot of women.
When you think of him more than you spend time with him, it's a sign that your relationship isn't balanced. That means it's time to find another cute guy or two to think of AND spend time with.
You can't wait around for emotionally unavailable men. High value women don't do that. Get busy with life and dating around, he'll come around and steps up his game if he has it in him and timing is right. If not, then at least you have your other eggs in other baskets.
The perception of options will define your feelings for him. You pine for him because there is no other guy grabbing your attention right now. That HAS TO change.
I haven't read your book yet but I'm planning on it.
I'm not waiting around for him. I do think of him and miss him. It's been 3 weeks since I last saw him. I have my profile up on two dating sites and am actively accepting invitations out. (I've been out twice in the last few days).
I do consider myself high value and have a lot to offer. :) I work a lot, am busy with my kids and social circle, do a lot of outdoor activities and generally enjoy life. Believe me, I want him to come around but I won't be putting my life on hold for him. But, if there is a way to bring him around, I'd like to do it.
From what I know of him, he isn't usually emotionally unavailable. He is buried in work and had been through a bad breakup before me. I will be allowing other men to snag my attention. I just haven't met one so far that has been able to do so. :) I'm working on it.
I understand it's not easy to find mutual chemistry. But once you do, there will be no ounce of neediness in you. Your problem will be that now you have too many options and you are being torn apart. :)
A reader just wrote: "Love the book!!! Am reading it for the 2nd time & as I've followed you for a while am pleased to say that I have already put majority of your advice into action & that letting go really does free you.
I have also opened myself up to other options available to me & have one man who is quite keen but I must say it does'nt sit very well with me as I'm a loyal person & love the main man in my life unconditionally.
Could I ask you a question?
The man in my life is a single dad & our time together is at a premium as you are aware but we do have a chemistry & everything has to go in baby steps (as in your book). He is happy me staying over now (when he does not have his daughter) & we quite happily potter the following morning (although I don't outstay my welcome), he is quite open for a man & has been the one who talks about going forward.
Sometimes when we are mucking about txting, He will say something & I will say something like 'I'm so lucky having such a handsome devil in my life'....... & EVERYTIME he will ask something like 'am I, really?'
This morning I think I have just avoided, what could have ended in an argument. We were joking about something intimate & I just made a quipp & he came back with 'Used to? sounds like you don't want it to anymore?' so I txt 'Now you know that's not true!!!! I know it's your favourite part of you but it's only ONE of my favourite parts', to which he wanted to know my other favourite parts............. Crisis averted!!!!!!!!!!
Jokingly I asked 'what do you like about me'? & I got back, you are very gentle, very loving & very kind, loyal lady too.
Why do I feel so deflated? What he said is lovely, but I feel selfish for wanting him to say, I'm beautiful etc......"
My response: Thanks and congrats on getting more skilled in magnetizing men! :)
Of course it's normal to want him to praise you for your beauty but then again don't expect it. Focus instead on the positives of what he says and be grateful for them. Do it for every great thing he does. The more you you do it, the more he wants to do it.
A client thought it was it between her on-and-off again bf when they fought the last time on Dec 29. She gave up and was ready to move on but she wrote me yesterday:
"Yes, we were together on New Year's eve and have been seeing each other ever since. I'm really not sure what happened but he's better with me now and I feel that our relationship just keeps getting better and better. After that one week break from him I've applied what you've been preaching. What you're preaching works and I don't feel shakey in the least. Not like when I first contacted you. Leaning back, staying in that feminine essence, keeping busy when he's distant, mirroring, and no expectations are the key essentials to staying sane when in a relationship. I know that now..."
how do i download this book?
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