Get Your Ex Back, Save Your Marriage And Stop Your Divorce
STOP PRESS!! You might want to read about this big news first: I just published my new book and women are so hyped about it already because they see result with their men in an instant!
He's Really That Into You, He's Just Not Ready: The Ultimate Guide to Dating Emotionally Unavailable Men and Beat Them at Their Own Games
Some women are natural Goddesses. They have this certain aura that just emanates effortlessly that intrigues any man that comes across their path. It comes from unwavering self-love and self-esteem.
And again, these women may not be stunningly beautiful. They are attractive beyond the physical. They have personality, self-confidence and charisma that make men addicted to them. They embrace their feminine charm and sexuality. They are not using their sexuality as a bargaining chip but a vehicle for bonding and self-expression.
Being High Value Is Not What You Think It Is
A high value woman is not the one who withholds sex. She is passionate about life and has such an aura about her that no matter what happens with her relationship with him, she will come out on top. She's a powerful woman, yet she is soft.
Whatever she does -whether being vulnerable or independent-, it comes from the place of power and self-confidence. She doesn't bind him, instead she makes it clear that he's free to leave anytime to pursue his happiness. She cares about his happiness as much as hers, but most of all she doesn't need him to be happy.
This relentless self-confidence and well-roundedness is everything secure guys want in a woman. That is how he perceives "high value" and he knows it that a man will move a mountain to have a woman like that in his life. (Sign up for my brand new Leaning Back and Cultivating Feminine Mystique Workshop to be that woman)
She also doesn't play hard to get (if that means making him jump through hoops. Read the correct way of playing hard to get which in fact will create intense attraction in him). She doesn't need to. She shows interest. She thinks the world of him, in fact. She makes him flattered. He feels great being with her because she looks up to him. He feels like a man and a hero to her. She can't get enough of him and it is contagious that he has no other choice but to reciprocate.
Yet, she has her own life. She lives a full life. She is as happy to come see and spend time with him, as when it's time to leave and do her own things in her own space. She enjoys her me-time and she creates beautiful things separate from her relationship to him.
And yet she is wise enough to know that men, even those that she is so into, have insecurities too. Realizing that gives her the "upper hand," hence while she thinks highly of him she doesn't put him on a pedestal either. She has firm boundaries and respect her own needs and feelings and make them known in a non-threatening way to him. When she is obviously in love with herself without coming across as a narcissistic bitch, he'll be the one who puts her on a pedestal. Every compliment she says about him will flatter him so much.
And she does compliment him when it's due and it's genuine. She builds him up. She is loyal and supportive. She has his back and doesn't try to change him. She accepts him, warts and all.
And it's addictive. He wants more of it. From you. Because you are special. Because you are a high-value woman whose opinion matters so much to him.
I know What You Think: Is He Emotionally Unavailable Or Is He Just Not That Into You?
A High Value Woman Is Passionate In And Out Of Bed
Guys are not scared by our emotions. If they're into you, they are addicted to your emotional expressions so long they're done in a balanced way without the drama. A touch of vulnerability and detachment works wonder to create a sense of mystery that will make him yearn more for you.
Women's capacity to feel deeply and express it is fascinating to men. It actually draws him closer to you. It's not something they regularly come across among their peers.
So a high value woman feels safe and comfortable to express her deepest feelings and desire. She's totally present and in the moment. She has no agenda other than enjoying whatever life throws at her at any given moment. It's a rare quality that will make him so intrigued and think more about her when she's not around.
She also captures his imagination in bed. The world fades away when they kiss. Men connect on the most visceral level through sex. That's the most fundamental way for them to feel intimacy and total acceptance as a man. And when a woman can show him that he has it all to make her happy and satisfied and yearn for more in the sack, he feels so great about himself. He feels safe and closer to her as a result. And he'll think more of her when she's not around.
A man will stick with a woman who constantly makes him feel good about himself and about being with her.
It's a simple science.
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Investments You Can't Miss
Now, let's get to the bottom of this. Maybe it's new to you but this is exciting! Do you know that a guy can be very attracted and deeply in love with you, but STILL not want to move the relationship forward? (I know, I know...I can sense a few heads nodding in zealous agreement here!).
Whether "forward" means calling you for another date to saying "I do." his "forward" decision making
process HAPPENS IN HIS GUT! You long for that ring on your finger? Find out how to inspire your man to commit:
And this one to really know how men view commitment and what moves them into that direction:
Wondering how to make him fall MADLY in love with YOU? Here's the secret
Do you know what magnetizes men to a woman? Be a guy magnet.
So he left and you are left devastated. It's not the end of the world. Get yourself back first and then read this:
Guys disappearing isn't new to most women who are actively dating. This is how to resolve it once and all:
Your cell and your fingers are your friends to bring romance back into your relationship:
And you can even text him/her back:
Thank you, Yumi. Compliment them anytime as long as it is genuine and doesn't sound patronizing/fake. Guys love to be "mothered" to an extent. It is the excess of mothering that they don't like like nagging, over functioning, etc...