Should You Make Him Chase You? A Hot New Ebook: Text Him Back!

I have just been advised that my friend Mike Fiore, the author of Text the Romance Back (if you haven't read it, please get it) has just launched a long anticipated new ebook on the get-ex back genre, called Text Your Ex Back.

I really think it's worth reading and Mike has a lot of savvy advice you might want to hear about emotional hot buttons to push when dealing with a man/a woman (yes it works for both genders) and a breakup situation.  And he will give you the exact words to text your ex that will make him wonder about and miss you!

Here's his latest Q&A from some of his fans about the efficacy of his new exploit.

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Hey, it's Mike . . .

Just got this email and wanted to take a minute to answer it because it's one of those questions I get ALL the time . . .

Helen asks:

"I just bought Text Your Ex Back and I'm confused by this. Mimi  Tanner, Bob Grant, Paige Parker all say DO NOT CALL OR TEXT  HIM BACK. IF HE PULLS AWAY YOU PULL AWAY FURTHER.

This is the 1st thing I am reading from a man to use texting to get him back. I understand using simple things in your program to get him focusing on the good times in our relationship and wanting me back, but I  still don't see how this is going to work over the NO CONTACT RULE."

Hi Helen,

Thanks for your email.

First off, let me say that I know Bob and Paige and really admire their work. (I don't know Mimi personally, but she does good stuff.)

That said, I think the "NO CONTACT RULE" is crap.

Kind of.

Let me explain.

It's true that men like to "chase" women and that playing "hard to get" can do wonders to get a guy's motor running and if a guy is  actively pursuing you, pulling back and playing the scarcity  card will have him crawling over broken glass to get to you.

But your guy isn't chasing you, is he?

Seriously, the idea that a woman should just sit back and wait and HOPE that a guy she loves will get around to coming after her is total bullshit.

How's he supposed to know that he should chase you in the first place if you don't "bait" him into it?

You have to tease him a bit. You have to make him wonder about you. You have to make him jealous. You have to seduce him.

And THEN you can play some games with him.

But just sitting there and acting helpless is never going to get you what you want.

Emily asks:
"Please be honest. Will your Text Your Ex Back program work with Email? My ex is long distance, does not text and  will not start."

Hi Emily,

Yup. Just like all my programs, you can transfer the ideas and concepts to whatever medium you want. I like texting because it's instant, but email works great.

Lindsay asks:
"Michael, I bought your Text Your Ex Back program and have been using it for a few days now. The first day seemed successful and he responded, but when I sent the "best of the relationship" texts
today I can't figure out if it went well or not.

He responded like you said, but it didn't turn into a deep conversation. How do I know if it's working?"

Hi Lindsay,

I say this in the program, but Texting Your Ex Back is often a long term process.

First of all, you should leave a 30 day gap before starting to use Text Your Ex Back (or any program for that matter.)

Even if you've been broken up for a while, if you're in contact with your ex, you should leave a full month where you don't talk to him at all.

From there it's a matter of accumulating "little wins" with your ex.

Getting him to respond at all is a "little win."

Getting him to have a conversation with you over text (that you ALWAYS end first) is a "little win."

In your case (she sent me the whole text conversation they had but I didn't include it here) you got a total "little win."

From reading your text, he's definitely wary of getting too into a conversation with you. And that's fine. The fact that he talked to you, mentioned that movie you liked and was friendly is all a GOOD SIGN.

The key with Text Your Ex Back is consistency. A lot of folks who use TXB don't get ANY RESPONSE AT ALL the first few text they send. And that's totally fine.

If you work on yourself (like the program teaches you) and send the messages I tell you to, you'll slowly start reawakening his interest.

Now, am I guaranteeing that you and your ex will get back together using this program?

Nope. No way in the world I can guarantee that. I don't know the situation. Like I say in the program, your old relationship is dead.

But this is the best method around for creating a new relationship with your man.

Take a deep breathe.

Take your "little wins."

Force yourself not to text him more than twice a week.

Slowly amp things up.

Is he worth it? Then you'll do the work to do this right.

And that's that.

If you have comments on this, go to my Facebook Wall at http://www.facebook.com/michael.c.fiore

And if you want to see what this "Text Your Ex Back" thing is all about, go to http://www.textyourexback.com


Best,

Mike

P.S. If you're not willing to take this seriously and do the emotional work it takes to really get that
one guy back, please don't watch the video and don't invest in the program.

This stuff works, but only if you take it seriously and work the system.

http://www.textyourexback.com