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Not together anymore, but still sort of "together"
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Started this discussion. Last reply by Diana Lancet Jan 30.

Painful breakup
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Hi Katarina,I've just signed up for this forum because you replied to my post at the Powerful Intentions website. I'd just like to explain my situation first: I've been dating this guy for more than…Continue

Started this discussion. Last reply by Katarina Phang Nov 29, 2010.

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Diana Lancet replied to Diana Lancet's discussion 'Not together anymore, but still sort of "together"'

Well, I am trying to "live an exciting life" because that's the only way to "survive", really. What I also wanted to say is that the problem with me is that he was the only one that got so close to me. I don't know…

Jan 30

Katarina Phang replied to Diana Lancet's discussion 'Not together anymore, but still sort of "together"'

It's normal to want to feel wanted by the man you love. But if he's not treating you the way you deserve or want to be treated, you'd better think real hard about the time you're wasting over him. You have to keep in mind…

Jan 29

Diana Lancet replied to Diana Lancet's discussion 'Not together anymore, but still sort of "together"'

Katarina, is it really about my ego? If I really only wanted to be loved and admired, then I would've turned my attention to other guys that have pursued me over this past year (there haven't been many, but still ...). I just want him --…

Jan 29

Katarina Phang replied to Diana Lancet's discussion 'Not together anymore, but still sort of "together"'

Diana, yes this is an addiction: an ex addiction. It's about our ego being hurt. It's often not about the other person 'cause deep down we know he's not good for us anyway (that's why we broke up in the first…

Jan 28

Not together anymore, but still sort of "together"

Hi Katarina,After a while I decided to write to you again. I don't know if you remember me and my problem, so just to briefly summarize everything: I broke up with my guy more than a year ago and have gone through hell since then, to be plain. Our relationship ended after he came back from a vacation where he had cheated on me. I must admit that time does heal because it has gotten a bit easier. At first, I couldn't stand being alone even for five minutes. I was really a nervous wreck…See More

Discussion posted by Diana Lancet Jan 27

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Katarina Phang replied to Diana Lancet's discussion 'Painful breakup'

When your hope is up, your expectation is up and you know that expectation will only hurt you. Just enjoy the attention but remember he broke up with you. If he wants you he knows what to do. Till then, there is no need to over think things.

Nov 29, 2010

Katarina Phang replied to Diana Lancet's discussion 'Painful breakup'

You can be just open when he comes to you with his feelings. Listen and absorb and then let it go. Move on. The move on part is very important. That's what makes you more valuable in his eyes. Mourn till you can't cry anymore as well.…

Nov 29, 2010

Diana Lancet replied to Diana Lancet's discussion 'Painful breakup'

Another update: he called me again yesterday evening to see how I was doing. He worries quite a lot. But is that just because he feels sorry for me? We talked for an hour and I also asked him about that. He said he does care and that he still loves…

Nov 29, 2010

Diana Lancet replied to Diana Lancet's discussion 'Painful breakup'

No, no, we didn't actually "meet", I just saw him passing my car. He wanted to stop and talk to me there, but I drove away. Then we talked on the phone, but only because I had sent him an email earlier ... I namely saw the Facebook…

Nov 28, 2010

Katarina Phang replied to Diana Lancet's discussion 'Painful breakup'

Did you also sleep with him? Whose idea was it to meet? Not hopeless. But right now, he doesn't find you very attractive because you're too available. Last night my husband really showed me how insecure he got when I left him alone…

Nov 28, 2010

Diana Lancet replied to Diana Lancet's discussion 'Painful breakup'

I saw him this week and that's just made things even worse! When I actually see him, it hurts so much knowing he's not mine anymore. And he's so damn gorgeous!!:( We also talked on the phone afterwards, but that only makes things…

Nov 27, 2010

Katarina Phang replied to Diana Lancet's discussion 'Painful breakup'

Yes that's normal to miss him. Accept the feeling and let it go. Don't dwell on it. Breath it out. Do whatever helps you in the moment, sometimes when you are missing someone so bad and making you melancholic, thinking about his…

Nov 22, 2010

Diana Lancet replied to Diana Lancet's discussion 'Painful breakup'

So, an update: I went away for a week and sort of felt better because of a change of scenery. But then it all came down on me again. Especially when I was driving back home in the rain yesterday. I just miss him so damn much, Katarina!! And all I…

Nov 22, 2010

Katarina Phang replied to Diana Lancet's discussion 'Painful breakup'

You're welcome. Update us again each day if you like. Make it like your journal where you put down your thoughts and feelings and struggle. Good luck.

Nov 13, 2010

Diana Lancet replied to Diana Lancet's discussion 'Painful breakup'

Oh, I meant "from a walk WITH his brother":)

Nov 13, 2010

Diana Lancet replied to Diana Lancet's discussion 'Painful breakup'

I truly hope so, Katarina! I've just come back from a walk from his brother and we talked a lot about everything. I'm starting to finally get it that I have to let him go, because he really is beyond my control now ... And when I finally…

Nov 13, 2010