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Hi, I was wondering if u could help me.

In january my husband told me to leave as he thought we weren't 'made for each other'. I'm not sure what was going through his mind, everyone and I mean everyone was shocked to hear that me and him had separated. Just like me, everyone can see that we are truly meant to be together. I want to see myself with someone else but I can't, hubby is the one and only.
Anyway after me and my daughter left with all our belongings, hubby said he realised that he made a mistake and wanted me to come back. I told him I needed some time to think etc. One day he would say it's gonna work between us and the next he would say it wouldn't, I was confused so when he told me there was only a small chance it would work out between us, I cut all contact with him.
After 2 months of no contact (April-June), hubby got in contact with me through my mums phone. He said he wanted to come see me and my daughter, he came and I was being my nice, fun, happy self as I wanted to remind him of why he fell for me in the first place. Hubby did ask me to come back but he didn't sound too convincing, I said no but in a nice way. He left, and then a few weeks later came to see us again. I again was laughing, being happy and flirting. He asked me to come back (this time was more convincing), and said if i started divorce proceedings then he wouldnt sign the papers as he wants to make it work. I told him he had to stop going with other women and make more of an effort etc and he said he would as he wanted to make a proper life with me and his daughter. He said he would come again in a few weeks time but it's been 2 weeks and he hasn't made any plans yet. It was my birthday 2 days ago, hubby txt to say happy birthday etc but I haven't heard anything else about him coming to see us.
Just wondering what I do now? Hubby said he would txt on my mums phone in the 'meantime' but I've heard nothing apart from the birthday txt. I put in all the effort when we were toget

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me and my boyfriend dont really hang out that pften i dont say much about it im just understanding and say okay thats fine, but we only hang out like one days a week but he texts me all the time. i guess i just feel like he's too busy for me. I dont know if I should tell him I think this I like him alot and I know he likes me alot but idk i'd like to see him more then one days a week.

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.....I believe I am gathering real strength. I dared to read once more the breakup mail my former partner left me. The very same mail which had reduced me to a crying, not-eating mess. Now I truly feel I am able to learn from it and move forward, toward becoming someone who attracts her once more..

oh i love reading them Katarina..I will reply too on the threads!!